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Post by wifetobe on Dec 19, 2003 11:16:39 GMT -8
I have a sensitive question. My fiancee is struggling with coming to terms with covert incest. Has anyone had experiences or heard of experiences where boys have fantasies about their mother's sister, after covert incest began? Or, experiementing with masterbation or masterbating other neighborhood children or male relatives in early adolescence? I know exploration with other children is perfectly normal while young, but 13 year old boys masterbating each other sounds a little old. Also, dreams about his aunt, who he saw completely naked when he was 15 and was aroused by, continue into present day, 12 years later.
Does anyone else has insight or experiences with this I can pass to him or he can read himself to see this is part of the consequences of being a covert incest victim, if indeed anyone else has these experiences?
Thank you.
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Post by victimswife7 on Feb 14, 2004 7:51:26 GMT -8
Well, if dh ever fantized or had any sexual feelings about a family member, he would never admit it to me. (gag, gag.) He did admit to masturbating but not with other boys.
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Post by wifetobe on Feb 14, 2004 9:38:37 GMT -8
Thanks! I know it sounds disturbing. That is why he wanted to tell me. He wanted to come clean about everything he felt ashamed about.
WTB
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