Post by em on Jul 31, 2017 19:24:27 GMT -8
I am not sure where to turn. I am not sure if I was sexually abused as a child (I have repressed many memories) but I do know that my, now adult sister of 36, has been living with my parents in an enmeshed triangle for 2 years now and things are progressively getting worse. She truly idolizes EVERYTHING my father does and says. She walks around half naked around him. She has taken over cooking dinner for him. He buys her things. He lets her live there for free. I could go on and on. I used to feel so left out and jealous but now it all feels really gross and I am thankful I am not exposed to it a whole lot. I am having nightmares about the two of them having sex. I am just now facing this covert incestial reality so I am not sure if there was sexual abuse in our childhood but we both have symptoms of her being the Chosen Child and me being the left behind one. She is his biological child while he adopted me at 3 years old.
I don't know what to do as the "other" daughter/sister. I don't know how to face this or talk about it. I don't know where to turn. Does anyone know of a support site for family members of the abused?
-EM
I don't know what to do as the "other" daughter/sister. I don't know how to face this or talk about it. I don't know where to turn. Does anyone know of a support site for family members of the abused?
-EM