Breaking Away from Parents

[Moriji]

There isn't much much need for moderation as there is not much activity. However, I've deleted a few of your posts as they were quite shaming. Please read the rules. If you cannot abide by them, then I'm going to have to ask you to leave.

Also, if you've been in therapy, you would know that talking about one's feelings is the "professional" approach.

[nathan]

Just read
www.covertincest.org/content/what-do

over a year ago I sexual assult councellor said she does restoration between adult survivors and parents (their friends raped me when I was little)
I told my mum to see the sexual asult counsellor near them
then I would see the sexual assult councellor
then we could be reunited with the sexual assult councsellor mediating


It never hapened. They saw a psychologist
I never heard any more from their psychologist

I refused phone calls
only exchanged cards at Christmas, birthdays etc.

basically I cut the tie

it was so releasing

now I have found this really informative site and forum

I feel understood


I see both my parents were innvasive
they opposed eachother
confusing me

Nathan

healium
I really relate to you mentioning that sexual / emotional abuse makes us feel our body is not our own.

yes - I see a key for recovery

that my body is my own
my body is for ME to inhabit.

N