Post by seayshore on May 19, 2007 6:51:34 GMT -8
Recently there has been exchanges between members where each and every one of the rules were violated. Not only this but fingers were being pointed, accusations being made that were unfounded and one of our members was being discredited. The result of this caused a third member to become very afraid and left the group. The member in question was banned. As with hot topics and fears whether real or imagined, it is best to try and keep attacks and opinions of other members to yourself and focus on your own issues. The rules are a very important feature of this group in particular, given the subject matter. Be careful in how the posts are read and do not take them personally since we all are dealing with similar issues. The administrator takes this very seriously and after reading the rules you feel that you can not accept these boundaries then it would be best to seek another group. Otherwise every body here will welcome you. It is also best to post openly in the group. This is not a dating site. Although friendships have been formed between members, it is best to get to "know" the person openly first so there aren't any problems such as what happened recently. Thank you.